Quality of Life or Quantity they asked me?

It doesn't sound awful to me. We all consider these things when contemplating our treatment. In my opinion it's a basic human right. You have to do what's right for you. I agree with @steplightly. Take a notebook. Write things down. Don't put any unecessary pressure on yourself, and be kind to yourself. What works for you when making difficult decisions? Long walks? A swim? Lengthy chats with friends and family? Research? We all have our processes. For me it was a lot of walking and cogitating, and writing a pros and cons list basically. The actual act of writing stuff down was very clarifying. A counsellor might help too. Be gentle on yourself Dawn! K xox