Sorry Nads, lost half of my post!
I feel for your partner, I know what my husband went through. I coped pretty well but he really struggled. I gave him the booklet for partners which came in the My Journey kit and he also spoke with a BCNA counsellor which helped.
The thing is they can't fix this for us but they need to understand that they are so important in helping us get through everything which will be thrown our way!
Good luck with your next ultrasound - hope the next week goes quickly for you. Wishing you and your partner all the best and sending a hug to you both. Jane x