Completely get the shock when you are diagnosed at a younger age. Mine was two years ago at age 39, completely unexpected. My profile shows my story summary if you would like to have a read. In short, very aggressive, 3 tumors, required mastectomy, spread to lymphnodes etc... Just want to say I am out the other end and recovering well after 7 surgeries in 18 months. I never thought I would survive. I used to be a very anxious and scared about every little thing kind of person. You are starting out your journey with this disease in the right place. Trust in your team of surgeons, nurses and carers and come here to ask questions. You are in the right place and there are amazing men and women on this site to help you. Remember to take it one day at a time. this is a marathon not a sprint and you will soon get your pace. Big virtual hug x