Hi Sheryn
your journey sounds so much like mine! I was also diagnosed on my birthday. Have had a lumpectomy 2 weeks ago. It has been a whirlwind ride, but all the advice above is so true. Take one step at a time, he kind to yourself, take someone with you to appointments, read the information you received from BCN, and no 2 journeys are the same.
I have been really lucky with my surgeon, Chem oncologist and meeting my rad oncologist tomorrow. Chemo starts 3 March and having a Portacath inserted on Thursday. All of the medical folks have been so kind and understanding and have explained really well what is happening and what is next. It is amazing how quickly you start using the lingo!
i hope your results are good and that you start feeling a bit more in control soon.
hugs and strength from me to you.
Lesley