Hi Sue, I am also recently diagnosed and just underwent a second surgery for DCIS (HG) last week and am awaiting results that the margins were clear (I didn't even know what that meant a month ago!). It has been a whirlwind and have found sharing the news with supportive friends and family has really helped. Also my mum went through invasive cancer 6 years ago and had rounds of chemo/radiotheraphy which has given me confidence that it can be overcome. I really hope you can have the surgery soon as I think a lot of anxiety can stem from that. Perhaps stay focused on gathering information to help you know what to ask your surgeon when you do meet. Also be prepared for the recovery period post op, I suffered really low energy the first time and thus was more prepared with wholesome meals (lots of kale and leafy greens) for the second op which helped me recover more quickly. I am also reading up on mindfulness to help me prepare for what is to come. Take it once step at a time and don't think too far ahead is best; hope you get a good outcome and keep us posted. x