Soldier Crab - we have one in pre-school (4 next month) and one at school (9 this Sunday). My husband and I are going to speak to them but trying to decide if we tell them this evening and then the birthday celebrations will take our minds off it or wait until her birthday is over and talk early next week. Unfortunately at the moment I don't have anyone to come and help. My family are back in the UK and my husbands family in WA.
Aine - my decision over the weekend is if I have a double mastectomy or not. Your input and experience would be valuable.
Thank you ladies