Hello Glynnis, I was diagnosed with breast cancer in April 2011. Tests proved that it was in my spine in several places, pelvis and left femur. The tumour had already spread into my chest wall so was inoperable. I thought that I was going to die soon and was very scared!
I was given 6 months of chemo which brought everything under control and stable. For the next two years I just took a daily Arimidex tablet. I retired from work, renovated my house and travelled to South America and Turkey. In 2013, I had 15 doses of radiation on the tumour as it had started to grow. that knocked it back into control so I travelled around Morocco and France. In July 2014, the CT scan showd some mets in my liver so I was put on chemo again. Another 6 months of Abraxane which again has got it under control. My oncologist has said that I can plan my next holiday which will be Greece in September.
It is almost 4 years since that first horrible diagnosis. All the things I worried about, pain, disability, death, have not come true. I enjoy my life. I deliver for Meals On Wheels each week, still sing in a choir and attend classes with U3A, walk my dog twice a day and go to yoga every week. Most of the time life is normal. When on chemo I get more tired than usual but not enough to stop me doing things. I make sure that I eat healthily and that I have some daily exercise. I try to make sure that I have a good nights sleep every night. I spend time with family and friends and try to be positive. This diagnosis is scary but not an immediate death sentence. Have hope for the future and be as positive as you can.
Good luck, Lynne