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nonkyboy
9 years agoMember
Newly diagnosed today and feeling shattered.
Hi ladies, I have been hovering around these pages for a few days while waiting for my biopsy results to come in and hoping I could leave as quietly as I came. Unfortunately I am joining the group. M...
Zoffiel
9 years agoMember
Hi @nonkyboy Don't get too caught up with guessing what is going to happen. It's a natural reaction but, as some of the other ladies have suggested, the bloody goal posts keep moving. Breast cancer makes a game of Quidditch look positively sane.
Wait until you get all the info before you start making decisions. Other than to clean your house--funny how that is the default reaction for so many of us. I've got to admit that both times I've been diagnosed I've started a cleaning jag. Then I decide that I couldn't give a shit and that someone else can deal with the mess when I'm dead. Then I realise I'm not shuffling off in the immediate future and have to resume the whole domestic drag...
Good luck, Marg
Wait until you get all the info before you start making decisions. Other than to clean your house--funny how that is the default reaction for so many of us. I've got to admit that both times I've been diagnosed I've started a cleaning jag. Then I decide that I couldn't give a shit and that someone else can deal with the mess when I'm dead. Then I realise I'm not shuffling off in the immediate future and have to resume the whole domestic drag...
Good luck, Marg