Hi, so yesterday was my 21st wedding anniversary it was also the day I was told I have breast cancer. I'm going for my core biopsy on Tues then I guess I wait to find out when & what surgery I need. ...
Re your question about telling - I told my work colleagues (after family) when I got the biopsy results. I had surgery 3 days later so no point in dallying. I also wanted to work through treatment if I could (and did) so it made things simpler just to have it all known. It was my very small bit for demystifying bc. Not secret, not shameful, hard work but common. Best wishes.