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Hi all, its the new kid on the block here. 

I had first specialist appointment yesterday.  Had my "cheer squad' (husband and sister) in tow.  After my appointment I had to have another breast scan to check a couple of lumps specialist wanted cleared.  As suspected they turned out to be simple cysts.  Had blood tests today, mammogram and CT scan to do Monday back to specialist Wednesday, booked for surgery Monday 20th August.  My feet have not hit the ground.  I can't believe I only found out about this on Friday!  Talk about "rock my world!". 

My specialist is female and quite clinical but seems quite competent.  If I am looking for good bedside manner I have come to the wrong place.

I haven't cried in the past two days.  Just the odd trickle down the cheek.  Reading my "new online friends" accounts of what they are going through I am learning more and more.  First thing - check everything.  Second thing - check everything. Third thing - get another opinion.  One good thing that has come out of this is that my daughter has finally "stepped up".  That makes me feel really good!

The more I read and the more I research (now an expert!!) I have learned that most people these days now survive this alien inside. 

Love hugs and cuddles to you all.  Will keep you posted.

Suzieq 

Hey Mitch,I had grade 3 stage 2 Invasive Ductal Carcinoma.Had a right mast and 19 nodes removed 2 of those were bad.I started chemo 5 months of it and about halfwa through I got a sore spot where my bra would sit,had a bone scan,and they said it had spread,and I was given my prognosis.Well I just wanted to die,I cried for days and then got angry,got another opinion,from a prof in Sydney he said he wasn't convinced,came back to gong to another prof he looked at scans and said ' I think someone has made a mistake' He looked at my bloods and said everything was perfect.I trust this new doc,he was the only one who stepped out on a limb for me,he was angry that I didn't have radio,so that's why I'm doing it now,starting tomorrow.This whole experience has made me so strong,i trust my instincts,and question everything. I'm feeling happy and healthy. I'm hoping your journey has not been this awful Sorelle.xxoo

OMG!!!!! Sorelle

How can they make a mistake as big as that!!!!!!! Unbelievable and someone should be accountable for that surely.  You would have been going through hell once given that kind of prognosis.  How long did you have to live with the wrong prognosis being given before you received correct results.  Did they say the cancer had spread and that is why you were given that kind of prognosis??

What sort of BC are you deailing with etc.

You poor thing.  I can't believe that could really happen in todays world!!

Michxoxo

Thankyou Mitch for your info.I have so many ups and downs.I started chemo last May,and finished in Oct,and was booked in to start radio soon after,had a bone scan and was told I would only have 5 years.Got a 2 nd opinion and guess what.......they made a mistake,arghhhh it has been hell but I'm a survivor :) Take Care Sorelle.xxoo

Hello Suzie,I'm always here for you,please let me know how you go tomorrow.Thinking of you Sorelle.xxoo