New to this and it is hitting me that it is a waiting game.

Hi there @LisaJHM...I'm so sorry you've had to join our club that nobody would want to. Unfortunately, "Hurry up and Wait" might become your new catchphrase when it comes to this particular shitfest that is breast cancer.  Before chemo starts, you will have a number of various tests in order to establish a baseline. Bloods, scans, this that and the other, so the doctors know what your starting position is. Chemo is strong, potent stuff, and in order for it to wipe out the "baddies", unfortunately the "goodies" get caught in the crossfire, so a very close eye will be kept on you. Before surgery too, they will want to know exactly what, how big and exactly where the bastard is. More tests...more anxious waiting. We here understand...we've been there and know your worry and stress. This site will become your safe place with all the support you need as you go through your different stages of treatment. We have your back. Biggest (((hug)))...Ally.