Hi Nicole I'm adean ,facilitator of our group, what a ------ of a thing to happen to you at 27 , look welcome but I suppose you never thought you would be doing this in your life as most of us did. We are are a group that meet every month for lunch, we laugh and cry, we have all different ages, and are at all different stages . Or just blog to us , someone will always give you an answer, I live in lysterfield sth you can always send a private message if you want to . Look bc is not pleasant but it's do able it can be a hell of a road but we get there. Regards adean