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jomaree
7 years agoMember
new diagnosis
New to this so not sure if i'm in the right place. Diagnosed in October, have had 2 surgeries. Lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy and 2 weeks ago axiliary dissection. Have seen the medical oncologist and know I will have hormone therapy as oestrogen + also radiation therapy still waiting for appointment. Oncologist says my choice to have Chemo but not recommended as only 1% advantage for survival. My head says listen and follow medical advise but my gut is saying go for it, need to give an answer by next week. So confused.
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- Giovanna_BCNAMemberHello @jomaree all the best with your first treatment tomorrow
- jomareeMemberThanks. Every bit of onfo helps.
- kmakmMemberThey like to give you a bit of a break after you've finished your last treatment, whatever it is. Usually two to four weeks.
Good luck tomorrow @jomaree. That is a long day indeed. K xox - jomareeMemberThanks for all the advice. Started my Premeds today. Have a long day tomorrow. 9am at hospital to meet Pharmacist, Nurse and Social worker. 11.30 see Oncologist to go over side effects and sign consent forms. 1pm start chemo till about 3.45pm. Saw radiology oncologist last week and will have a planning session in March and start in April if chemo goes to plan. Had my bone density scan done also. When do you start Hormone therapy?. Must remember to write things down. My daughter coming with me in the morning and hubby will come sit with me in the afternoon. He has been through chemo for bowel cancer so knows the go. will keep everyone one posted on my travels and sure I will be asking for help along the way xoxo:| :| :|
- Doin_itMember@jomaree TC can be savage on the kidneys so make sure you drink 2 to 3 ltrs of fluid for a few days before & after chemo & absolutely ask any questions xx
- sandramjMemberWe know what’s best for us when we listen to our inner knowing. Trust our gut feeling. That’s what’s right for us. Hope your journey is fast healing with a full recovery
- kitkatbMemberHi @jomaree absolutely agree with @Doodoo. I also did TC and finished Sept 18, it is doable and the big thing I could suggest is make a note on how you are coping after each chemo so you know what to expect. If you do have any adverse side effects let them know as they can change your pre chemo and after chemo drugs around so you don't have to suffer in silence they did this with me and it made a big difference. I found day 3 to day 9 the worst days for me and then I picked up until the next chemo. You'll get there and if you have any questions just ask away. All the best xox
- kitkatbMemberHi @jomaree absolutely agree with @Doodoo. I also did TC and finished Sept 18, it is doable and the big thing I could suggest is make a note on how you are coping after each chemo so you know what to expect. If you do have any adverse side effects let them know as they can change your pre chemo and after chemo drugs around so you don't have to suffer in silence they did this with me and it made a big difference. I found day 3 to day 9 the worst days for me and then I picked up until the next chemo. You'll get there and if you have any questions just ask away. All the best xox
- Doin_itMemberSo pleased you went with your gut feeling @jomaree. I did TC & it’s not pleasant but it’s doable. I’m nearly 7 months since diagnosis, chemo, radiation & hormonal treatment (Letrozole) & feeling great. Sending you hugs
- Wishing you all the best for treatment.
Listening to your inner voice I find is always the best for me.
You can do this !
sending cyber hugs your way ❤️