Karen and Polly great comments and suggestions thank you . I am so glad I found this group ! I never asked for copies of my results last week so will definitely do so on the 19th.
Yes I agree we are used to bring in control. And I think it's frightening for our families too so I find I am constantly reassuring everyone .
I read this and it's becoming my new mantra lol
It is what it is
It was what it was
It will be what it will be
It will take as long as it takes
I did feel by being accepting of my situation I was almost complacent . However I can still be patient while still planning to kick bc butt.
Thanks again for your words of encouragement . If nothing else I have met such lovely kind people since my diagnosis . Deb xx