Hi
Yep it's a hard road. When I was diagnosed I thought I took it pretty well. Wrong.
How can you. A friend came round in the afternoon whipped me away to my favourite place by the sea and yep too many wines.
I came home apologised for being merry to my husband and sobbed my heart out.
I had questions for the first appointment but it wasn't the right time.
I realised this is the first time in my life I am just following the process.
For me I just take one step at a time. I don't want people telling me others stories. It's nice to chat about normal stuff with people.
I agree if someone says I will cook a meal..yes please...we had a friend help to get the garden up to scratch. Things that were important to me.
It is good there is a rural group you can connect with and great advice.
Take care, my heart goes out to you.