@TrishV as everyone has given you the great advise. My plan after testing was exactly the same as yours
chemo to shrink the bugger. Then surgery then to get it out and radiation to hopefully mop up and i am now on a lifetime of hormone blocking meds and oncology appointments
I did loose my hair. Actually when I started shedding i got it all cut off. Im nit fussy person and definitely not vane about my appearance comfort is my go to.
With treatment I did mostly everything I was told to do all the way along.
During chemo i had someone with me each time. We would always take nibbles drinks etc and amuse ourselves with crossword puzzles. I went public from the start thankfully my main out of pocket has been the lack of income during it all
now its the scripts and the other stuff that doesn’t come on script. Oh And the times I need to see Specialists in their rooms. Though now im officially on age pension the scripts are cheeper and some specialist give a reduced rate and bulk bill directly to medicare. So far I’ve been lucky that way
Check out the podcasts on here they are in layman’s language mostly.
Also sleep with most of us is hit and miss. I do relaxation therapy to go back to sleep though I reckon I need a new one the old one i think my brain is overriding it because I have been using it for so long
keep us updated with how your going. And no question is too strange or dumb. Some have great knowledge and the rest of us can relate things from our own experiences. Its a balancing act of out which might work for you. If one thing doesn’t work try out another