Hi @Me2 Just want to welcome you to the group, none of us would want to belong to and encourage you. You have a right to be angry and sad and petrified, we are here to help you navigate your way through this horrible diagnosis.
Feel free to Rant we understand and get it.
Tracey you are allowed to get a Mental Health plan from your GP when you have a diagnosis of cancer and go to see a psychologist I highly recommend doing that you have such a lot that has hit your family in one go...
https://www.psychology.org.au/FindaPsychologist/Default.aspx
Once you have seen your surgeon you will feel a bit more in control.
Do you have a Breast Care Nurse? http://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx
have you got the My Journey Kit? https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/
You sure have had a lot to cope with in a short space of time....
HUGS and energy to deal with it.
Soldier Crab aka Alice xoxox