Lump found 1 month ago now removal of breast

Hey Yollydolly, so happy for you that you have a starting line!! I know that your business is going to be a godsend over the next couple of weeks because at least when you are at work, hopefully, some of that time you will be able to keep your mind off your impending surgery. Time really does seem to slow down when you are waiting. So wishing you all the best, and a super speedy couple of weeks. Xx 

Glad you have a date. Long road ahead for you. We are here for when you need us.

Hey everyone i had found out i am having a masectomy on my right breast possibly followed by radiation, the chemo...
on the 15th Feb.
I would like this year to be over thanks  LOL
i have great friends and family here in Echuca for back up so i shall be fine..

Yollydolly!!! Welcome, certainly not alot more I can add after these wonderful ladies have already shared! I just wanted to say, you'll learn things about yourself you never really knew. I had long blonde hair and I never fussed over it, was just lucky I guess, but was amazed how much I adapted to BALD!!! LOL had so many benefits I can tell you! 1yr on it came back super curly, but now its long enough I can straighten and I finally am looking like the new ME out the other side. With Chemo, youve got some great advice, and just know its super doable, and you wont know until you have your treatment plan and start as to how you will be. Putting some plans in place now is a great idea and then see how things go and adjust as you go if need to! Theres a wealth of love and support here, and there is nothing you could say that all of us ladies havent felt or thought through this journey. We are here and we are with you, helping anyway we can to support!! Big Hugs Melinda :) 

Thanks so much Cath.. yes its pretty hard on my mum and being single she is  so worried about me.....
Ill defintely let you know when the surgery is happening 
cheers and thanks <3

Hey Yollydolly, Sorry that you've made it here because of the BC, not sorry that you've made it to this fantastic network. Being self employed do you have income protection? If you have any loans with the banks check on those too as a lot will insist on income protection when you have your own business. As for the boobs - I thought mine were reasonable - could still pass the pencil test  ;) but after my mastectomy with implant reconstruction I have now entered the realm of SUPER BOOB!!!!! Bigger, stronger, perkier - able to leap .... ok maybe not quite that super! BUT sensational all the same. As for your personality - it may be taking a bit of a hit at the moment. When you have had your surgery and commenced whatever treatment plan, your personality will bounce back full tilt - it is what is going to get you through this!!!! And you will get through this. To have your own business you have to be strong and determined - to go through treatment you have to be strong and determined!!! As for your mum aging 10 years - don't I know that one. It's unbelievable the toll that this takes on our loved ones and you can watch them age in front of your eyes. They wouldn't want it any other way though. Let us know how you're getting on and when your surgery date is. Wishing you all the best. Xx Cath 

You will be susceptible during chemo to every cold and flu going around. Best you vet your customers or just avoid working for the fortnight after each dose. By the start of the third week you start coming better, just in time for the next dose. If you are past the every membrane and mouth is sore part, sucking an antibacterial Strepsil will protect you. Maybe the customers would like one too? Every one who visited me got a Strepsil at the door lol.

thank you unicorn i apreciate the information and i work with my best mate shes a bossy bitch and will keep me in line hahaha 

I too have just been diagnosed and am self employed with a small business (dog groomer) which I have run for 17 years. Your good clients will be understanding, compassionate and will come back when you are up and running again. Many of mine are going to a friend while I cannot work but want to work around my down time. You might also be surprised how many have also had BC, some of mine have been really helpful with local suppliers of bras and prosthesis and have even shown me their chests so I know what to expect. The lack of income is frightening and if it is important, you might have to go to Centrelink about it. You might lose a few clients who don't come back, but that happens anyway. I am planning to work on my good days to keep myself busy, but only short hours and clients I know I can do easily. Take care of yourself foremost, healing, and dealing with everything that is to come is the most important thing now. Good luck with your surgery.