LorraineB
11 years agoMember
Just diagnosed
I have just been diagnosed with IBC. It still does not seem real. I have a large mass in my breast and and cancer in my lymph nodes under one arm. I have my first oncolgist visit coming up in 10 da...
Hello Lorraine
It seems like just yesterday that I was feeling the same way as you and I am now approaching six years since being given a rather bleak diagnosis with IBC.
I've had chemo, mastectomy, radium, herceptin and a trial drug. Decided not to have reconstruction but have just had my 'real' breast uplifted and reduced so I can get a smaller prosthesis. (didn't look this good when I was 16!! lol)
I never thought there would be life after 'cancer' as it certainly shook up my life in many ways (and not all bad ).
Take time for yourself, do not even try to remember everything that everyone says to you, have faith in your doctors, count on your friends and family, don't be afraid to say you need help, take plenty of time for yourself, have all of your questions answered but, most of all, enjoy the company of all of the wonderful people that you will meet who may have never come into your life.
I do not know where you live, I am in Brisbane and always happy to meet/chat with anyone that wants an 'ear' or a friendly word.
All my thoughts are with you at this time. Never hesitate to write on this forum - it is a bunch of friendly people who will provide you with support where they can.
Luv
Corinne