Thanks, gathering more information and trying to gain a broad perspective at present is so important. That feeling of not identifying with this predicament at any level at the moment is making this decision a wee bit more difficult.
We were organised to leave for the UK on the 28/8 for 5 years, all our belongings are now in storage in the UK and my daughter's new school is sending work over and I am home schooling for the next couple of months. We still plan to travel to the UK, I am hoping at the start of Dec.
Juggling many balls as all of us do during this time can distract but also increase the anxiety. Sharing on this forum, warm hugs, lots of cuppas, walking the dogs and sending love back to this forum will hopefully give me the perspective I require