Hi Theresa , well welcome is not what you would want to hear, but I'm glad you've found us, it's scary it's happening so fast for you, and being scared is normal,but at least they are on to it and you don't have to wait to long.pathology at least gives you your plan of what's going to happen. Waiting becomes the worst thing as the brain concocts all sorts of ridiculous thoughts, the good thing is we all go through it so your not alone, yelling , having a cry , and the sense of is disbelief usually go hand in hand . We do come out at the end, like many ladies will tell you. I hope you have the my journey kit which is invaluable, which you can Order for free here, I still use mine 17months later. BCNA was my lifeline through bc, a great bunch of people who you've never met, but feel like you've known forever! All the best for your surgery. Regards adean