It's all happening very fast....

Hi Sam,

Welcome but I'm sorry you've had to join us.

i don't think it matters whether it's aggressive, small, caught early or whether or not you have a strong family history, it is a shock when you get that news. I guess under your circumstances, you are a little ahead of most as you have already made up your mins as far as surgery is concerned. 

Its ok to be scared and it is very normal. Like many of us, you just want it gone so that you know it's no longer growing or spreading within you.  If it ends up that you have to have chemo, you will and you will get through it. Yes it's bloody awful but it's short term pain for long term gain. It's amazing what you can do and put up with when you have to. Just make sure that you have supports in place and work closely with your medical team. 

Yep, cancer sucks big time! But you will get through this and you will be ok. I know it sounds cliche but one day at a time, one appointment at a time. Take someone with you to appointments when you can. Write down questions for your medical team so you don't forget. Be gentle with yourself and yes, have that glass of wine. It might just take the edge off for you. Hang in there and good luck. Karen xox