I have been thinking about you and wanted to add something. I have a young friend that I met during my first diagnosis of BC. She was your age when she was diagnosed. She had a little boy about 3 years old and was pregnant when she received her BC diagnosis. The baby had to be terminated but her and her husband thought that they were lucky enough to have the little boy. They didn't worry about saving her eggs etc , they just wanted to get on with the treatment and make her well. Anyway when all the treatment was done they asked her doctors if it was possible to try for a baby. The doctors said that they had to wait for 2 years after the treatment finished. Well my friend fell pregnant straight away at the end of this 2 years and has a beutiful little girl who is now nearly 3. She was born with a red strawberry birthmark on her forehead. We all think that this is to show how special she is. I know your story is different and i am sad that you are not in a relationship right now but please let us support you in whatever decision you make. XLeonie