I’m in a grey area and confused

I agree with you there, @MrsMorrisey. It seems like sometimes they really don’t know the answer, so leave the decision to us, who are terrified and not educated on chemo matters. Then they rush us to make a decision. Very unfair. Then they offer the oncotype test, which costs $5K. Excuse me? I don’t have $5K lying around for a test which sometimes also comes back inconclusive. I got a bit annoyed at this when it was suggested. If it’s that important, the gov needs to cover the cost. I told my onc I won’t be doing that test, and to please help me with the info he already had. They did suggest the free online Predikt Tool test thingy, which I used and which showed about 2% benefit (not enough for me to have poisons that kill off everything in your body, as you said it, and I actually agree on that). My Ki67 was also low, and based on all that plus what the registrar said, I decided to not go ahead with it. I was never keen on it and I told them they need to give me a good reason to do it; they didn’t. I figured surgery, radiation AND hormone suppressers were already enough for my poor body (especially being stage 1). Each to their own, as long as people are confident with what they choose.