Hi @Tracey62 so sorry you are back here. I feel your pain as I had a recurrence. I initially lived with one Breast and wore a prosthesis however decided to have my other breast removed and at the time of the second mastectomy had a bilateral TRAM flap. When you join the choosing. Ready reconstruction group have a look at the announcement which appears at the top of all the posts. There are heaps of photo stories there that will give you a realistic idea of what you can achieve from reconstruction. The type of reconstruction you choose may depend on whether you have radiation etc. It is of course a very personal decision and one of course only you can make.
Paula x