First Timer

Take someone with you for all future appointments. With your mind in turmoil it is easy to miss things being said and take a notebook of questions to ask. Telling family is tough and surprisingly don't be aghast if some back away like cancer is some sort of contagious disease. It is tough on all but I think the quicker everyone knows the quicker they all figure out how to adjust and perhaps help you here and there.

Be prepared for the idiots who bring in some whiz bang natural "cure". We all cop them. Just thank them for their well meaning and leave it at that. 

Just doing a bit of shopping or dropping in a quiche for dinner is welcomed. No it is unlikely you are going to die so rule out any thoughts on that score. Yes you will be under the weather here and there and have to spend far too much time in your eyes resting up and recovering. Its long, scary, tedious in appointments and absolutely boring staying mostly at home. Stock up on DVD movies and mini series are even better.