Hi Lisa,
I agree wholeheartedly with comments made so far about the individuality of every case.
I had a double mastectomy in Nov 15 after a routine Breastscreen checkup detected something in my right breast. Initially a lumpectomy suggested but then further micro cells detected, so mastectomy recommended. Then a spot found in my left breast so I requested to have that off as well, rather than just a lumpectomy on left. Like you, I chose to not have reconstruction. My breast surgeon said that nodes were all clear.
It was only when I had my oncology appointment a few weeks later that I was made aware of micro cells in one node on the right side. I had gone to this appointment expecting a discussion about my follow up hormone treatment but was given the option of chemo. Whoa - what? How could I possibly make that decision?? Just tell me what to do!!!! We agreed that I'd have a few days to think about it. To be honest, I found this decision to be the most difficult experience of the whole breast cancer saga, feeling highly unqualified to make that call. However, the fact that my oncologist, whom I saw as the expert, was giving me the choice suggested to me that my own mental attitude was a determining factor. She supported this view. I chose to not have the chemo. For me, I feel this was the right decision but understand that others might have made the other choice.
I wish you well for your upcoming appointment and hope you find the answer that sits best with you.
Pauline xx
