Viking1, sorry to hear your diagnosis. It's certainly not easy . I was diagnosed January 24th and my oncologist wanted me to start chemo the next day, i told her no. I needed time to process it all so agreed to start the following week. I am er positive and my tumor was six centimeters and as im small busted, a b cup it was recommended to do chemo first to shrink the size in the hope of going for a lumpectomy. I'm just over halfway with chemo. I was petrified too at the thought of it all as I'm also single, no kids, or parents. I wonder too what i will have left after surgery but it is what it is. I do not have anyone to turn to but this supportive community which has helped so much about my fears.
Thinking of you as you start this journey.
Lisa x
