Hi Angie, it is a shock especially if you feel fit and healthy and you never even thought it could happen to you . I've been diagnosed on the 4th of Feb and I am 41 yrs old and I have two little girls . It's a long journey ahead of us, but all the lovely ladies that commented before me have already been throught it and came out of it even stronger than before . I wish you all the best with your treatment and please keep in touch. Federica x