@NewBoobsPLS - I believe your surgeon's nurse should be organising that for you ....
Yep, face it head on, but don't overthink it, as it really can do your head in. Just now you are in info-overload and it is hard enough to keep everything 'ordered' ..... but it can really muck with your brain, specially the more you do the 'what ifs' and start guessing on treatment etc.
Ask the surgeon to write the plan down 'as is' - but it is the Oncologist who will be discussing your chemo with you - as that is not the surgeon's area of expertise. He will have suggested it, from what he's seen on your tests already - but it is the Oncologist who will tell you what is going to happen & when.
I am not familiar with services in Panania - but if you add the town name to your profile - others will spot it & may jump on with more specific info.
Take care - and I hope you get more info with your next round of meetings xx