Thanks people :( I haven't worked out how to reply individually lol.
I know she ( as in the BC nurse ) is doing her job but really she isn't any more likely ( in fact she is less likely ) to understand the pathology than I am and bugger me it is MY pathology.
I am going flat. My choice. My decision. I don't want the free bra... but I had to be measured and its ordered. What if I was going out and I " needed " to wear something? I don't need fake boobs. If you do thats fine but I don't. Looks like I am getting them tho... not even in the correct size. far out Brussels sprout .
I will probably do the axilla direction if " they " feel it benefits me. Everything I have read says in " early " BC its ok to forgo it post sentinel removal. I don't think I am early BC tho. I would rather have had the answer to that question than try on the bra.