Could really use some inspiration from a positive experience

Thanks so much @DebP for sharing your story - yes it seems that the ILC 'club' is a cosier one than some of the others. Did they diagnose your positive nodes pre-op? I'm a bit confused about the 'node' bit right now. I've read about some women who have had sentinal node biopsy prior to breast surgery and others who have the node biopsy during surgery - I guess these are questions I'll have for my surgeon next week.
Yes I will be absolutely much more on track when I have a treatment plan and I love the parting words from your oncologist. I know I have a difficult time ahead but I'll definitely get through it, especially with so much support :)