Coping with a cancer diagnosis at Christmas, some helpful tips...

Oh cripes @Payne, you poor thing. That's a total bugger. I will be crossing everything for you. Hopefully it won't be a nasty. Let us know how you get on. K xox

I started chemo on 3rd December 2016 after lumpectomy and full axillary clearance.  3 week cycles meant I could get a second dose in on the 23rd December.  Unfortunately, had planned to return to WA for christmas extended stay but had to cancel.  My daughter visited and looked after me.  Xmas dinner was pizza and a bakery cake.  Very relaxing, I just had to give in and accept the situation, as was feeling a bit sick (understatement) and oncologist said too risky to fly.

2 years down the track and I find I have a suspicious lump on same breast and now booked in for biopsy next week.  Once again, had a flight booked to return to WA for extended stay with
family and new grandchild arriving and am now wondering if Ill have to cancel that too.

Its never a good time to find a lump, christmas or no christmas.

Merry christmas all.    
 

@Milly21 unfortunately it's only me and my partner for xmas but he's been great :) <3

I was diagnosed on the 20th Dec 2016 , bone scans and Ct scans the following day all clear thankfully. On the 22nd my diagnosis was confirmed as a very aggressive Stage 3 grade 3 triple positive BC. I was also told that it was inoperable due to the size and fact that there may be skin involved. My treatment was to be Chemo first. We had plans for a family Xmas at my Mums new home in Coffs Harbour and were scheduled to fly up on the 23rd Dec, we went ahead with our plans as a few extra days wasn't going to change things. I met my amazing oncologist on the 2nd Jan 2017, had a port inserted in my arm that afternoon under a general A, saw a dentist the next day as I had a broken tooth, had that pulled. Started AC chemo on the 4th Jan.15 months of treatment followed , I am now almost at the 2 year mark since my initial diagnosis and am happy to say really healthy and enjoying my life. It is a surreal feeling looking back as it honestly feels like it happened to someone else. My cancer was extremely aggressive as was my treatment even so, we were always given time to think and breathe. After finishing 6 months of Chemo we snuck a week away in Kingscliff, then I started 5 weeks of Rads,
followed by a mastectomy and full aux node clearance in Mid September. We treated ourselves to 3 days over Xmas last year at Crown Metropol as I was finally cancer free after a massive year. Herceptin treatment finished in March and I was switched from tamoxifen to Arimidex in June, taking that for 10 years. It is difficult starting your treatment on or around major holiday periods as there is always a skeleton staff on, you do however get through and know that next Xmas will look a whole lot different.

I had surgery on the 23rd December,came home on 24 th ,my family were all staying at my house for Xmas and coming up to it I was dreading it,it ended up being a good thing as it was distracting didn’t give me time to dwell,and I got them to do everything,and I would duck of for a nap when I wanted,it was nice for my teenage kids to have people around too ,took pressure off me be cheerful all the time,so I would say family friends support is great if you can get it over Xmas period.

@Sweetpetal If you have a choice in timing Christmas, see if you can get it to fall in the third week of a chemo cycle. That's when you'll feel best. Hang in there. K xox

All the best for your meeting @Sweetpetal  xxxx

@SoldierCrab I really hope so been waiting for my Oncologist to get back from leave for the last 2 weeks

Then you might begin before Christmas. 

@SoldierCrab I haven't had surgery, going to have chemo first