The support or lack of it that comes from those around us can make all the difference. BCNA have a great pamphlet to give to people about helping someone when they are diagnosed with breast cancer. Have you got your My Journey Kit yet? Maybe you could leave a few lying around for people to read.
It is very difficult for some people to know what to say or do. Everybody just does what they think is best. Some people have a fear of upsetting you by talking about it. Remember if you are having a difficult time working out how to react then they probably are too. I had some great support from family but lost a friend who just did distanced herself from me.
What you will find is that talking with others on this site will help. We have all been where you are now and we understand how difficult it is. Please keep in touch. Deanne xxx