Hey, I'm in the same boat.. Diagnosed in Nov, followed by mactectomy & imm reconstruction. Now going through treatment options with MO, he recommends chemo but I'm anxious about it all, also we don't agree with the "cocktail mix", so going over to him tomorrow to see if we can change it.. Newbie, I'm a mum too, have an 8 yr old and was also worried about how he and other people would handle my BC. But honestly Ive been surprised how well he and his friends have embraced it all, and parents at his school have been so kind offering help. I hope you'll find this too. I'm often online, so if you'd like to chat you'll find me here. Annie