I’m sure life likes to create a few bumps to see how you cope! This one can be my last!! So 48 and had a routine mammogram and ultrasound on 9/3/18 - only booked day prior after having referral a few weeks, more concerned with my B12 deficiency. Had biopsies same afternoon and long wait for results until late following Wednesday and Surgeon booked next day. All fast and surgery last Monday 26/3/18. Back to Surgeon today and in for more surgery to ensure clean margins tomorrow. I have lobular type - still getting my head around this and look like with need hormone therapy. Referrals for radiation etc. being done today so the wheels are still turning. Trying to be positive and treating as a process _ but seeming a big one right now!

Hi @Traynota I was diagnosed on 8/3 with lobular. Same as you - in quickly for surgery, then back again for mastectomy after it was found to be much bigger, no clear margins and also nodes involved. I never expected as had no signs - had the mammogram just to tick a box. Kind of took the wheels off summer plans. I'm about quarter of the way through chemo, then will have rads and then go onto some sort of hormone therapy. Welcome to the network - you'll find lots of support here and good info.

@Traynota - Welcome to the Club (sort of!!)We've all been thru the mind boggling journey that BC is - and many of us are still only part way thru it ..... it sounds like you are coping pretty well so far. xx It really is an emotional roller coaster - it is FINE to be weepy, angry, upset ..... all sorts of emotions will 'take over' at any point in time. This is TOTALLY NORMAL.You've had your follow up surgery now - so I hope you are recovering well, not in pain & that the margins are clear. I am 64 & was diagnosed with invasive lobular BC in early Jan & had my surgery in mid Jan as a Private Patient in Sydney. I've just finished my 4 weeks of radiation last Wed. The Radiation clinic at Port Macquarie was terrific - the nurses and staff were just fantastic. I did the radiation as a public patient for no cost.I stayed at the Rotary Lodge there for the radiation treatment & just walked to the clinic every day, 200m away, coming home at weekends (over 100k away.) It was brilliant. IPTASS covers petrol expenses & most of the accomodation cost for out of towners.Try & keep yourself 'busy & active' with your 'usual pursuits' between now & the start of your radiation (and afterwards!) Your new wound will need to heal before that can start - it may be 2-3 months. I found that continuing with my hobbies at every opportunity helped keep my mind off things (I run a ukulele group & go kayak fishing a lot) and also kept me sane, which is good! Some of your family & friends may be confused because you don't necessarily 'look or even feel ill' once the surgery pain has passed!! I think they thought I'd be bedridden!! They'll get used to it.Lean on your family & friends & don't feel that you have to tell EVERYBODY about it, if you don't want to. If friends want to cook you some meals - LET THEM! One of my uke buddies did that for me, each weekend we were home during rads - and it was just wonderful not having to go out & buy stuff to make for dinner!I used a few different creams during Rads, 3 times a day - Epaderm, Renu28 (a lovely gel by ASEA) and Aloe Vera Gel - then Calendula cream & after Rads finished, I peeled a bit - so now using BOZ Ointment.Sleep can be very hit & miss during this journey .... there is a thread here on it with some good info on trying to 'beat it'! Usually, keeping active will work the best! Just make yourself tired!I'll be seeing an Onc Dr in coming weeks about ongoing hormone treatment - I had a shocking time going thru menopause 20 years ago - so not looking forward to the tablets bringing those symptoms back! :( In the mean time - I am going to Norfolk Island next weekend for 10 days with some ukulele friends (planned late last year) - so I hope you enjoy your trip to NZ!! (I lived in Auckland for 15 years - and it holds a special place in my heart.)You'll make a bunch of 'new friends' here on the forum - ask away ANY question - and it will be answered by those who have gone thru it! One step at a time - onwards & upwards - all the best xxxx

Hi @Traynota,Life sure can throw some curve balls can't it? Well welcome to the forum. You will find some very useful advice and a wealth of knowledge and warmth from everyone that is, and has been, on the BC roller coaster. It does make your head swim, to say the least, at the beginning. Luckily the bc process is a very well oiled machine in Australia trust your team and your instincts. Ask lots of questions. Do you have a breast care nurse to help you through?I had a different type of breast cancer but I am sure there will be many with a similar diagnosis to give you some tips.XOXOXO

I was diagnosed 6 years ago with ilc and here l am.lots of ups and downs good days bad days better days but lm glad l went through it.l met amazing women here and run a support group for ladies, some come and go but some have become my best friends.lve been to bcna conferences lunches, spoke to groups of women and l found a new me.l hope that your trip in this crazy disease is kind.regards adean

Hi @Traynota I was diagnosed with lobular cancer 20/2/17 .I had a lumpectomy and sentinel biopsy March 2017.The lumpectomy did not have clear margins so back for a re excision 10 days later when clear margins determined.The sentinel node biopsy removed 2 nodes one of which had microstasis.I then had radiotherapy 16 rounds to mop up random and have been on hormone therapy Letrozole 8 months which is going ok.The lumpectomy/ sentinel node biopsy basically enables detailed pathology of your cancer .In the initial stages my strongest advice is to take someone with you for medical appointments to provide a second pair of ears as your listening may be clouded for a bit with shock.I’d also highly recommend keeping a diary of treatment details - the BCNA My Journey Kit includes one which is quite useful. I also found the BCNA kit suggested questions I might ask medical staff as I tended to be a bit numb for a while and things can also be quite pacy.I found medical staff and even non medical staff very caring and supportive during treatment so felt somewhat cocooned from fear once the ball started rolling.The hardest part for me was when when active treatment ended after radiotherapy when I felt alone and lost as I was expected to return to my former life when I was no longer my former self. That’s when this blog and local support groups became invaluable as I could share and learn from others and most importantly I learnt life does go on.Small tip I did not know - you can blend treatment between the public and private systems which is especially relevant for radiotherapy which can have costly excess in the private system -mine was $2000 not covered by health insurance.Radiotherapy is intense as you have daily zaps with just weekends off so can be tiring. The actual treatment is quite quick though just a lot of travelling back and forward.Creaming carefully during radiotherapy is critical - many here used Moo Goo with great success. I used Calendula cream ( which I liked )at my centre and Dermaveen at home.I am a very fair red head and my skin came thru fine but there are side effects that can linger months after radiotherapy ends.I do not recommend Sorbolene I found it a poor emollient.Hormone Therapy so far has been ok but imo it is critical to stay active. I walk daily for an hour and do a gentle stretch and balance class twice weekly.It is not always easy to do so but find I can move thru joint pain and really feel it if I don’t.I am happy to answer any questions if I can and talk more about what I written above.Just remember you are not alone and there are many who have gotten thru this.Stay communicating on the blog and we will all help you thru this. XO

Another newbie here - going through the process! and travel plans??

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kmakm
Member
8 years ago
I had my re-excision on a Tuesday and flew from Melbourne to Sydney on the Friday (for a wedding) and home again on Sunday. It was fine. Just make sure you pack your painkillers in case you need them.
Traynota
Member
8 years ago
I think that is yet to come - been so rushed and organised in my head what’s next. When the radiation comes, not so ordered and stays I think I will be needing these forums even more.
We are travelling to NZ on 19/4/18 to visit family. Planned over Christmas- wasn’t an issue based on original surgery date. Surgeon now says more about my comfort - wondering anyone else’s experiences. My post went ion and I forgot deleted that part but not the tag!!
kmakm
Member
8 years ago
@Traynota I had to have a re-excision, not as lengthy as the first op, you'll be right ☺

It's nice to be positive and I must say you sound very chirpy! But having a cry/vent/rage can be very cathartic. This forum is an excellent place for any and all of the above; we all get it, so if you need to, let it rip. BC is a big mountain for a woman to climb.

You mentioned travel plans in your title. Did that mean all the to-ing and fro-ing from appointments, or something much nicer?!
Traynota
Member
8 years ago
Hoping all margins out tomorrow, lucky enough still left in there! It’s such a roller coaster! Good luck with your too!
Sister
Member
8 years ago
Just realised I typed 8/3... chemo brain at work - should have been 8/12.
Sister
Member
8 years ago
Hi @Traynota I was diagnosed on 8/3 with lobular. Same as you - in quickly for surgery, then back again for mastectomy after it was found to be much bigger, no clear margins and also nodes involved. I never expected as had no signs - had the mammogram just to tick a box. Kind of took the wheels off summer plans. I'm about quarter of the way through chemo, then will have rads and then go onto some sort of hormone therapy. Welcome to the network - you'll find lots of support here and good info.
kezmusc
Member
8 years ago
Hi @Traynota,

Life sure can throw some curve balls can't it? Well welcome to the forum. You will find some very useful advice and a wealth of knowledge and warmth from everyone that is, and has been, on the BC roller coaster. It does make your head swim, to say the least, at the beginning. Luckily the bc process is a very well oiled machine in Australia trust your team and your instincts. Ask lots of questions. Do you have a breast care nurse to help you through?
I had a different type of breast cancer but I am sure there will be many with a similar diagnosis to give you some tips.
XOXOXO

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