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arpie
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8 years ago

Another bad start to the year

Hi guys

I was diagnosed last week with Breast Cancer after my GP did a boob check at a routine Pap Smear in Nov.  She sent me for another mammogram  in early Dec (altho the July 2017 one was clear and also didn't pick it up in the 'new one') and ultrasound .... the ultrasound came back as 'inconclusive', suggesting a Biopsy under Ultrasound.  I had that on Dec 29 and got the results back last Friday.  Cancer confirmed.

I'd convinced myself they were cysts as I'd had cysts previously (tho never aspirated or tested in any way) so was stunned when it came back positive.  My family history was always heart attack - no-one that I know of has ever had any cancer in my family history. 

I have my first appointment with the surgeon in Sydney on Monday and hope that surgery will be sooner than later.  I live in the mid north coast - so lots of travel involved from now on.

My husband had most of his stomach removed from cancer in 2010 - so whilst going thru all that, we became quite accustomed to the hospitals & chemo - but I still wasn't prepared when it came to my own diagnosis.  :( 

My 2 tumours are small & been caught early - so I am hoping for the best result - but will only find that out after seeing the surgeon.

I used a couple of forums to help me thru my husband's diagnosis (he is still in remission, 8 years later, which is pretty good for Stomach Cancer) and am happy to join BCNA in a similar role for me.  

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  • yep I traveled from Bathurst to Westmead Breast Cancer Institute for mine so I had the experts in BC 
  • We have family there and I just feel they may be more 'up with current trends' .... my husband had his surgery there and follow up appointments with his surgeon, tho his chemo was at Port Macq, as arranged thru the surgery team.
  • Thank you for the welcome.  I have ordered the Journey kit - and am using a notebook in the meantime.  Yes, one step at a time.
    I have 5 friends who have been thru it and I have been talking with them over the last week (one of them put me onto you) for tips on questions to ask on Monday.
    Thank you
  • Welcome @arpie. None of "want" to be here, but we do have a supportive bunch of women & men here. You'll always find someone to answer a question or provide some support here
    Take care
  • hi @arpie
    welcome to the forum we all wish we didn't need. 
    IT is shock when we get a diagnosis.... I am the first in my family with BC 

    Everyone here is supportive and will help point  you in the right direction. 

    Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet. 
    It can be a a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time. 

     

    The what and how thread.

    http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/the-what-and-how-thread/p1 

    Breast Care Nurses

    https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx ;

    My Journey Kits and other resources. 

    https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/


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