All of the above

We all fear the unknown. Being so much younger than me I can appreciate your concerns. I also wondered if I would see my sons complete their education (they both are qualified teachers now) one is married and I fully expect to be a grandma at some point. i already am a fluffy grandma to 12 beautiful Japanese Spitz puppies. Just because I or someone had this or that side effect does not mean you will. You may sail through it all being young with a low grade cancer no chemo like the majority of women young and old. Your doctors and medical team will provide guidance. I know of women who had chemo and went on to have children. Some went into temporary chemically induced menopause. Believe me most of us are just happy to survive our journey on the cancer train and emerge as the new butterfly at the other end so much stronger than before. For me at 50 menopause was a blessing after years of chronic migraines and other menstrual issues and I had completed my family with 1 son already at uni. I would suggest you join a group for young women. There are several around. BCNA even has separate sesions for them. Young women used to be pre menopause, now I notice the sydney seminar in october is for 45 or younger. Maybe due to city numbers. Certainly those with young children or no family yet have different issues to those of us with high school or uni age students . Hope this helps, thinking of you Your pink sister, Carol