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Mich_x
12 years agoMember
What helps you when you are down or stressed
Hey Ladies,
Just thought I would put it out there.........you know me. There seems to be quite a few posts lately stating how people are depressed, sad, lonely, upset, stressed and all the other feelings and emotions we have to deal with in our lives either from just general life or because of the dreaded breast cancer.
I thought I would start by saying I have been going through an ongoing tough time now for a couple of years, with one thing or another and it was while I was doing my six weeks of hyperbaric chamber every day that I had time to think. I decided I needed to do something to try and turn my life around.
I have started what some people call a "visualisation board" but mine isn't so much 'what I want from life' - mine is more of 'what should I be grateful, happy, feeling lucky and all those things that we need to feel to get through every day To feel good and happy.
I have photos of all my loved ones starting with my husband, my BCNA beastie, my daughter and precious grandaughter and other special people in my life. I have things that make me smile, I have words of encouragement of which one is very special as it is a pink sister picture with "Michele Be Strong" which I definitely needed every single day I did the hyperbaric. I have to thank Donna from Dubbo for this one.
Some of the quotes are things like:
- "Every day in every way I am getting better and better" "
- "I have decided to be happy because it is good for my health"
- "Be someone you want to be around"
I really find this helps me get through my days every day. I also have one very special verse that Janey235 wrote for me that I cherish and I make sure I read it every day.
I have started Yoga once a week and I try to Meditate most days but the hardest part with that is not falling asleep.....hahahahaha
I hope this helps and hopefully I have opened the path for other Ladies to come forward with what they do to help themselves get through their bad, sad and stressful days. In return we can maybe help some of our other pink sisters that are doing it tough.
Lots of love today, tomorrow and always,
Mich
xoxoxoxooxoxoxox
73 Replies
- adeanMemberThis should help anyone who is stressed, the love that this post has created has become huge, thanks Mitch for an inspirational blog that just shows all of our beautiful ladies warmth and sisterhood. Thanks adean
- Mich_xMember
IF YOU WANT TO FEEL RICH, COUNT THE THINGS YOU HAVE THAT MONEY CAN'T BUY.
xoxo
- Mich_xMember
IF YOU WANT TO FEEL RICH, COUNT THE THINGS YOU HAVE THAT MONEY CAN'T BUY.
xoxo
- VikingladyMember
Love the quote you posted. You try to be positive and happy all the time but it's very hard because as a silly human our brain always thinks of the what ifs. I find I am happy when doing my crafts, reading a book or doing family research on the computer or just walking in nature is fantastic for you.
Cheers xxx Janice
- VikingladyMember
I think the best thing I ever did to help me through was Meditation. I am still doing now after three year since being diagnosed so it has flowed over into my everyday life. I found it so great when you had to lay still for ages while having scans and being poked and prodded all the time.
Great to see so much support for everyone here. xxxx Janice
- Mich_xMember

SORRY GIRLS THOUGHT WE NEED THIS ONE. JUST WALK AROUND HAPPY WITH THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE ON YOUR FACE AND YOU AND THE REST OF THE WORLD WILL SMILE AS WELL AND BE HAPPY. TRY IT.
XOXOXOXOXOOXOXXO
- Janey235MemberYou two are fantastic! I wish I could hug you both. Love Janey xxx
- MelgMemberHehehe
- MelgMemberOh and stop worrying about me getting tired lol Tiredness is just your bodies and minds way of saying you have had a great day :)
- Mich_xMember

This one is for you my beautiful and precious BCNA Beastie. You love life and everything in it with all your heart and want to save the world. You get so tired on the way trying to but that is okay cause the love will come back to you tenfold but hopefully you won't be waiting 20 years.
This helps us remember why we do what we do.
Luv n hugs to all my BCNA pink ladies out there. Mich xoxoxooxxo