Just when you think you are back to a new normal you realise you aren't really quite there yet.I just find it hard to deal with stress these days. My impending minor surgery has me super anxious.I'm not sleeping well.I'm comfort eating.I'm not coping well at work trying to wind up workloads and see all my clients in 3 days because I'm having 2 weeks off. (well I'm hoping it's just 2 weeks)Yesterday a rather tense incident of poor communication made me super upset and I really needed time out.Today I just feel emotionally blunted from exhaustion which is not great in the job I do.Tonight in tears just trying to figure out what to cook for tea as I hadn't pre planned and was stuffed when I got home. The recent 1000 k round trip for just a pre op appt hasn't helped.The death of a fellow bc sisters mother of metastatic disease...brings home our fears.I'm also trying to organise my sister's 60th in between this as her partner has not done anymore but book a table...having it Saturday, day before we leave for my next trip to Adelaide.But on we go.Deep breathe.At least after surgery I'll be off the mouse wheel for just a few days at least.Kath x

Oh Kath, you take on so much, no wonder you get tired. We are all eternally grateful but you need some Primek time!! I know that crazy work thing, driving yourself into long, long days so you can have a few off. As long as you realise you are trying to do the roles of several people, you will also realise that a) you are not lacking in any way, b) tiredness is not because of your condition or because of treatment but because anyone else trying to do the same thing would also be (to use a technical term) knackered and c) you are compensating for others, which is generous but may be exhausting! Take some time out! Let someone else do the picking up or let something drop (no one will die!). Be a recuperating person for 2 weeks. Look forward to your surgery - it's been a long road, and demand some time! Very best wishes. Alison.

Hi primeck. I am getting stressed just reading what you have been up to. Your living life to the full.Your facing life head on. Sometimes things can get overwhelming. The problem is I forget I no longer have the same stanima I used to have and I get overtired. Things will slow down. I get anxious going to the hospital just for a follow up appointment let alone a minor procedure. A lot is happening for you at the moment which is fantastic . You are alive and active and of course will bounce back and soldier on. Best wishes

You are an amazing woman Primek and u do it all with a smile! One of the most consummate professionals I have ever met and it's great to work with u and also call u my friend! Next week is a great step forward and u will do it well! Take some time out for you and take it easy u deserve it. We will miss u but will be cheering u along the way and u will fly thru with ur usual style xxxxxx

Wish I could give you a big cuddle. :(Today I was trying to figure out what the conditions are in figuring out currency exchange rates - why sometimes you multiply and sometimes you divide. I couldn't see the sense in it very clearly at first so I asked someone and they recited a sum at me with no explanation but followed it with "Next time try google". My usual response to that kind of thickwittery is wow, tool alert, bye. but for some reason today all I could think about was what was the point of being so mean to me when all I did was ask for help and I actually cried about it. Stress is a crazy-ass monster of a thing. *hug hug* *hug hug hug*

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KathSe
Member
9 years ago
You are an amazing woman Primek and u do it all with a smile! One of the most consummate professionals I have ever met and it's great to work with u and also call u my friend! Next week is a great step forward and u will do it well! Take some time out for you and take it easy u deserve it. We will miss u but will be cheering u along the way and u will fly thru with ur usual style xxxxxx
fairydust
Member
9 years ago
Hi primeck. I am getting stressed just reading what you have been up to. Your living life to the full.Your facing life head on.
Sometimes things can get overwhelming.
The problem is I forget I no longer have the same stanima I used to have and I get overtired. Things will slow down. I get anxious going to the hospital just for a follow up appointment let alone a minor procedure. A lot is happening for you at the moment which is fantastic . You are alive and active and of course will bounce back and soldier on. Best wishes
SoldierCrab
Member
9 years ago
I hear you hugs xxxxx
Afraser
Member
9 years ago
Oh Kath, you take on so much, no wonder you get tired. We are all eternally grateful but you need some Primek time!! I know that crazy work thing, driving yourself into long, long days so you can have a few off. As long as you realise you are trying to do the roles of several people, you will also realise that a) you are not lacking in any way, b) tiredness is not because of your condition or because of treatment but because anyone else trying to do the same thing would also be (to use a technical term) knackered and c) you are compensating for others, which is generous but may be exhausting! Take some time out! Let someone else do the picking up or let something drop (no one will die!). Be a recuperating person for 2 weeks. Look forward to your surgery - it's been a long road, and demand some time! Very best wishes. Alison.

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