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hooper65
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10 years ago

Mastectomy

Hi friends 

Well I haven't written anything for a while.  I had my lumpectomy for DCIS on the 23rd June unfortunately they did not get clear margins and found  Invasive cancer.  Had a mastectomy with  SLNB on Tues 21st July home the next day,  get results next week on Monday. What a surreal couple of months.  I see myself in the mirror and the reflection is something I have always dreaded,  a part of me is missing.  I'm grateful that it was found,  I'm still uncertain of what is next,  still playing the waiting game.  Have had bone scan,  CT Chest, abdo and pelvis all clear. Has been helpful Being on this site,  hearing the stories of all you beautiful ladies.  Bravery all around.  

So just waiting for results and what's next. Thanks for listening. 

Sonya

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  • Kazzi's avatar
    Kazzi
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hi Sonya,

    Sorry to hear about having to have the additional surgery, mastectomy after lumpectomy. It is devastating having to face the scar everyday, I'm hoping it gets easier.  I had a similar experience, with two previous surgeries to conserve the breast, but resulted in mastectomy (mid May).  In my case, it was the best decision as there was another lump hiding (similar to the larger lump). 

    My surgeon recommended a shop in the city (Sydney) to visit for a breast prosthesis & new bras, so after 6 weeks post op, I went on a shopping spree with my besties. It did cheer me up. They had swimming costumes and swimming prosthesis as well.  

    I've also found the 'my care kit' to be fantastic (did your nurses order it for you?).  The pilates dvd is keeping me on track.

    All the best with your results on Monday.  It's always a nerve wracking time waiting in doctor's waiting rooms for the appointment time.

    I found a quote on pinterest which helped me, "Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you."

    Big hug,

    Karen xx

  • Anonymous's avatar
    Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Hi Sonya, I had my breast off in February this year, and yes, it does take time to get used to the look of things. Just take it one day at a time and remember that your family and friends love you for who you are. They should be looking at your lovely smiling face instead. Ne that you've had your surgery and you've got your results, you'll be able to get on with your treatment. You'll have a great network of people around you on this site. Warm wishes, Tracey B ??

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    lrb_03
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hi Sonya, I've been wondering how you were going. Sorry to hear your news, but glad that all the follow up tests were clear. Fingers crossed for results on Monday. As you said to me at one stage, give yourself the compassion that you give to so many others. 

    Take care

     

    Lyn

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    Robyn_W
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hello Sonya:) It is so hard in the first couple of months , every time you look in the mirror.  I was ok when i was dressed,but when it was time for a shower,I would just break down.It took quite some time,but I can tell you,that now,18 months past treatment,I couldn't care less when I look in the mirror.I don't wear my prosthetic,because it annoys me,I feel it is just fake.I am proud to be lopsided,and I hold my head high.I am grateful to be healthy,and I have never felt so strong.It took me a while to get to this point,but it feels pretty good.Give yourself time.CheersRobynxox

  • Anna_Theresa's avatar
    Anna_Theresa
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hi Sonya,

       Hi Sonya,

       What  a whirlwind month for you. You have had so much to deal with and it sounds like you are carrying that heavy load very well. I know that this site is a godsend for us all, so keep sharing and talking. Good luck with your results next week.

    Thanks for sharing,

    Ann