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Life after treatment.
Hi everyone,
Just 3 months ago I had finished 6 rounds of FEC and D and was about to start 5 weeks of radiation. I had a weekend away with my hubby to celebrate the end of chemo. We stayed in a lovely retreat which had a 250m boardwalk to get to our cabin. Despite trying to walk as much as possible during chemo I was very weak by the end of it and could barely manage the walk to and from our cabin.
As soon as I could, I started to walk again for exercise during radiation. I now walk at least 3km every morning. As well as this it was suggested that swimming is a good form of exercise for the arm after surgery, so I began swimming once my skin had recovered from radiation. I now regularly swim 500m and today managed 1km! I have been on tamoxifen for 1 1/2 months now but have virtually no side effects (the odd hot flush but not as bad as I had on chemo).
My eyebrows and eyelashes are back and my hair is growing! I feel healthy again with a new lease on life. I enjoy the little things and try not to worry about things beyond my control. I concentrate on looking after myself so I can be there for family and friends who have been such a support to me for the last 8 months. So for all of those who are about to start or are undergoing treatment, life can be good again at the end of that very long roller coaster.
Thank-you to all the wonderful ladies who helped me through the rough patches. This network was my lifeline when it seemed so hard to get through the next round, the next day or even the next hour.
Wishing good things for everyone in 2014. Deanne xxx
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- Thanks for our kind words. Was having an awful day today with hot flushes and bone pain..... But up and a little brighter now... Take care xxx
- Thanks for our kind words. Was having an awful day today with hot flushes and bone pain..... But up and a little brighter now... Take care xxx
- You are also one of the people on here who we all gain inspiration from. Your advice helped me through some trying times! Hope you had a lovely Christmas and that your experimental surgery works to improve the 'alien boob' and make life a whole lot better for you in 2014. Take care. Deanne xx
- I found the last 6 weeks and a little bit after I finished chemo the hardest part of the whole BC experience. I was in a permenant bad mood and nothing anyone said or did seemed to help. It was so exhausting, monotonous and just plain awful. In the end I just spent my days watching DVDs and wishing I had a fast forward button for me! But it is amazing how in just a few weeks I started to feel like me again. My life is wonderful now and I hope yours will be soon. I am constantly appreciative of feeling better at the moment and keen to do anything I can to stay feeling that way. I am enjoying spending time with my family and spoiling them a little after what we all went through. Hope the next few weeks pass quickly for you so you can begin to feel better too. Take care. Deanne xx
- Hi Deanne , So glad to read you have come through your treatments and are regaining your energy. You sound really happy. I have 6 weeks of chemo left now and have well and truly hit a wall with fatigue ! I'm in tears daily wondering if i will ever feel well again and am so frustrated that I can't do everything my daughter wants me to do. I love reading your blogs - you articulate everything so well and give me hope. X Happy New Year Sophie xo
- Hi Deanne , So glad to read you have come through your treatments and are regaining your energy. You sound really happy. I have 6 weeks of chemo left now and have well and truly hit a wall with fatigue ! I'm in tears daily wondering if i will ever feel well again and am so frustrated that I can't do everything my daughter wants me to do. I love reading your blogs - you articulate everything so well and give me hope. X Happy New Year Sophie xo
- Hi Hazel, Hope you are going ok after your chemo yesterday. Halfway now! I'm not super fit but I am feeling good and I enjoy what exercise I do. I know that it will help minimize the chance of recurrence a little bit more and it gives me more energy to make the most of life right now. I'm glad that I can reassure others that you can get through all the rough days and come out ok. Thinking of you and hoping you and your partner will be feeling better soon. Deanne xx
Thank-you Joy. Reading other people's bloggs really helped me to get over the fear of the unknown. I decided that for me the best way to cope was to do everything I could to help myself. I kept an open mind about side effects and did what I could to minimize them. But sometimes you just have to go with it. I remember being a bit scared that weekend when I realized how the chemo had weakened me despite my best efforts. But it was amazing how once I started to feel better, my body recovered quickly.
I really hope your journey goes as smoothly as possible. This network is such a support to all of us as we negotiate our way through that long tunnel. Just remember each day is a day closer to feeling better again. You will know more about what lies ahead after your appointment tomorrow. Let us know how you go. Thinking of you. Deanne xx
