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Fidelity
I have just found out that my husband has had an affair. It started 6mths after I finished treatment and has finished now. My libido and intimacy post surgery made sex fell like a chore and he knew it...
That's a bugger @ling
I hope that you are both able to attend some counselling together, to give your relationship a chance of surviving, assuming you don't want this to wreck your marriage? Your trust in him needs to be rebuilt if this is to suceed. Then draw a line in the sand & start over.
I would imagine that you are feeling angry, betrayed, disappointed, sad - whilst he obviously was feeling guilty, guilty, guilty ...
All the best on the path that you take from here. xxx
I hope that you are both able to attend some counselling together, to give your relationship a chance of surviving, assuming you don't want this to wreck your marriage? Your trust in him needs to be rebuilt if this is to suceed. Then draw a line in the sand & start over.
I would imagine that you are feeling angry, betrayed, disappointed, sad - whilst he obviously was feeling guilty, guilty, guilty ...
All the best on the path that you take from here. xxx