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christine_m
2 years agoMember
Feeling let down by friends
Did/is anyone else struggling to deal with friends and/or your partner who weren't there for you in the way you expected them to be when you were going through treatment? Im having trouble not feelin...
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arpie
2 years agoMember
SO sorry you've been let down by some friends & your husband @christine_m xx Sadly, it happens to a lot of us and can be very upsetting - as they often 'say' they will be there for you ..... but disappear :(
Sometimes they feel a tad 'threatened' as they may think it may also happen to them - and don't know what to say, so they say nothing, which hurts.
You'll get lots of support here xx.
Definitely book in to see a counsellor to give you coping mechanisms - if you are older, you can get a subsidised or bulk billed 'care plan' to include the sessions - and keeping busy, doing what you LOVE doing, should help keep the demons away (as the brain goes off on a tangent!)
Feel free to fill us in on your story so far ...
take care
Sometimes they feel a tad 'threatened' as they may think it may also happen to them - and don't know what to say, so they say nothing, which hurts.
You'll get lots of support here xx.
Definitely book in to see a counsellor to give you coping mechanisms - if you are older, you can get a subsidised or bulk billed 'care plan' to include the sessions - and keeping busy, doing what you LOVE doing, should help keep the demons away (as the brain goes off on a tangent!)
Feel free to fill us in on your story so far ...
take care
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