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arpie
7 years agoMember
I think we've all felt that, @Spillsy - check out this post I put up earlier today - it explains one lady's take on it ....
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/19897/an-interesting-read#latest
Don't be too tough on yourself - it will take time (assuming everything goes 'on track'!) Do the best you can - let people know if you aren't feeling up to doing stuff if they request it - I am finding it hard to get back into the 'social scene' with our friends ..... it all just seems too hard! :(
My 'anniversary of detection' is coming up in a matter of weeks - I'll be having another ultrasound (I had a mammogram a few months back so don't need that one.) Then, my anniversary BS appointment in January!
If you DO have any hobbies or favourite past times - give them a go - slowly! Build up to it. If you are able to 'keep busy' - it will help keep your mind off stuff ..... I know just how important my kayak fishing and Ukulele group has been in keeping me 'sane' during the last 11 months ..... and is a continuing part of my recovery. If I didn't have them - I'd have gone batty, I reckon!
All the best with your recovery - it does just take time tho. xx
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/19897/an-interesting-read#latest
Don't be too tough on yourself - it will take time (assuming everything goes 'on track'!) Do the best you can - let people know if you aren't feeling up to doing stuff if they request it - I am finding it hard to get back into the 'social scene' with our friends ..... it all just seems too hard! :(
My 'anniversary of detection' is coming up in a matter of weeks - I'll be having another ultrasound (I had a mammogram a few months back so don't need that one.) Then, my anniversary BS appointment in January!
If you DO have any hobbies or favourite past times - give them a go - slowly! Build up to it. If you are able to 'keep busy' - it will help keep your mind off stuff ..... I know just how important my kayak fishing and Ukulele group has been in keeping me 'sane' during the last 11 months ..... and is a continuing part of my recovery. If I didn't have them - I'd have gone batty, I reckon!
All the best with your recovery - it does just take time tho. xx