Nice change of gear there @Nadi! One of the nicest things for me was when a group of my girlfriends took me out for dinner and said "you can't say NO...what can we do to help you?" They came up with a food bank...about 20 girls cooking for the boys and I for weeks after my mastectomy. Then they doubled the commitment after my recent DIEP reconstruction. I am so indebted to them - it has meant all we have to do is reheat a yummy meal when the very last thing I can contemplate (or have energy to do) is cook xxxx
