Hi @Cora. That was not a very good show of love and care. My first experience with cancer way back 35 years ago my husband didn’t handle it too well. Not exactly the same and totally out of character. With the help of our GP. He was given the choice front up or get out. He came and got the help we both needed. He was hiding from the big C word, because his actions were so out of norm it was forgivable.
Words are one thing but without actions they can mean nothing
You have to put yourself as a priority.
I hope things improve for you.
Sadly my hubby had passed before i was diagnosed but I surrounded myself with people that cared. During this whole sh*t ride i have found the people that are with me all the way. Including in that is BCNA network The advise on here has been invaluable. 🫂🤗