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Cora
4 years agoMember
This week
Hello everyone, last Monday had to have an aspiration due to swelling. Then Thursday morning had DCIS removed, they filled my breast with local anesthesic, went home after 5 hours. Pain started gettin...
Julez1958
4 years agoMember
Hi @Cora
I am so sorry to hear about your partner not stepping up as required.
I found that my husband really helped me through the whole shitfest that is cancer - just as I would have helped him.
we were married and had actually made the “ in sickness and in health”vow but it doesn’t really matter - if someone really loves you they should be there to support you.
I am a person who has always been very resilient but when I got my diagnosis I went to pieces and my GP actually referred me to a psychologist - I found a couple of sessions with her very helpful - maybe that’s something you could consider.
sending you virtual hugs.
🌺
I am so sorry to hear about your partner not stepping up as required.
I found that my husband really helped me through the whole shitfest that is cancer - just as I would have helped him.
we were married and had actually made the “ in sickness and in health”vow but it doesn’t really matter - if someone really loves you they should be there to support you.
I am a person who has always been very resilient but when I got my diagnosis I went to pieces and my GP actually referred me to a psychologist - I found a couple of sessions with her very helpful - maybe that’s something you could consider.
sending you virtual hugs.
🌺