Hello everyone, last Monday had to have an aspiration due to swelling. Then Thursday morning had DCIS removed, they filled my breast with local anesthesic, went home after 5 hours. Pain started gettin...
Maybe chat with the BCNA helpline too @Cora. 1800 500 258 - as that type of behaviour really IS a type of domestic abuse ..... coercive control is being added to the list of unacceptable violence in the home - and will hopefully pass into law very soon ....
You were ill - and as your partner, his first concern should have been for your health & safety. Even if he couldn't take you as he thought he was over 0.5 - he still should have for arranged someone else to take you, then & there. That's what a concerned partner would do. Either that, or he should have called an ambulance!
I hope that the hospital gave you strong enough meds to control any pain - if you are still in pain, maybe contact your GP for interim stronger meds. Don't forget to eat with some of them too ... as they may affect your stomach if you have them for a sustained period of time.
Please follow up on @Locksley's suggestions .... re the Breast Care Nurse & Social Worker/District Nursing .... they should be able to help you too.