@Romla I have recieved advice, info and support from both @onemargie and @primek which has been invaluable to me. I also benefit from reading their many responses to others. I, for one, often feel very fragile and go lengths where I read a lot but don't post a lot. Both of these ladie's frequently give their time, knowledge and care freely and are regular supporters of the new members and those of us who've been here a little longer. If they go they will be greatly missed. I understand their reasons and they are each justifiably disappointed in the inconsiderate behaviour of others. I will join you in asking them very nicely if they would stay and continue the selfless work they do. Perhaps we can all learn from this that words can, and do, hurt and divide people when what they need most is understanding and kinship. Let's please ALL get back on track. I've never come across a forum like this one. Let's put any differences aside to restore the great work we do for each other here. If we don't like a post we can choose to skim past it without comment. If we feel we must comment, then can we use kind words designed to inform, rather than judge. Please stay and keep the forum great ladies!